Little Bit About Me

My photo
First and foremost, I am a Christian woman: I love Jesus! In this blog you will find stories of trying to conceive with PCOS, MTHFR, Poor egg quality, a unicornuate uteterus, and too many babies in heaven. It is a good thing God is the ultimate healer! Here you will find praise! and you may also find venting (I'm not perfect...) and you will find other stories of my crazy life. All the while through this journey I am holding on to scripture & hoping to one day be a mother here on Earth (waiting on God & His perfect timing...why am I so impatient?) But in the meantime, here you will find me: Jessica, loving wife, hopeful heart of a mother, and faithful friend.

Created by MyFitnessPal - Free Calorie Counter

CAUTION

All writing in this blog is unedited and 100% from what I am feeling at the time. By continuing to read it means that you will take my vents with a grain of salt. You will choose to not take offense. And most of all, if you know me in real life you will either choose to stop reading or keep the knowledge of this blog quiet, and privately allow me to know you are reading. I only share this information with close friends. I do not share this with facebook for a purpose: it is meant to be semi-private. Not "public" knowledge in the sense of the majority of those in real life knowing about it. If you can accept all that has been stated, sit back, grab a box of tissues, and be prepared to endure the rocky road of trying to conceive while trying to get out of the shadows of infertility.

If you have any private questions or concerns you may contact me at mynotesonttc at gmail.com




Thursday, September 12, 2013

Considerations

Being at the clinical site I am at this semester I really believe is God breathed. As much as I grumbled about the drive, and how one of the floors is not updated decoratively or even on the same floor as the laboring and delivering moms....it has truly been a blessing.

There are midwives in the hospital. Just as prominent as the doctors. They have the tele monitors that allow induced moms to move around, get in the tubs (that are in every room), and they endorse Kangaroo Care (where the baby is placed immediately on the mom's chest from delivery, goopy and everything. And not removed for an HOUR before they do weight or measure length. This is for premies as well as long as they are not in respiratory distress). They also allow Dads to catch the baby if he wishes. And the kangaroo care is implemented on c-section moms as well (as long as staffing allows a nursery nurse to stay with mom, and if they do not have the staffing dad is encouraged to do skin to skin in a separate room in the nursery).

They are also shooting to go baby friendly. Meaning no formula provided by the hospital at all. I want to get their breastfeeding rates. And c-section rates. Because I am betting they will be lower than most other places. Woo you should see the heated discussions about this online! And about breastfeeding in general. Breast is best. Period. I do understand there are circumstances that do not allow for breastfeeding to occur, hence in the olden days there were wet nurses. But even though that choose formula should be able to admit, nursing for first thing postpartum to allow the baby to get colostrum is better than nothing.  Not choosing to breastfeed at all when you can without medical reasons getting in the way is honestly kind of selfish in my opinion. Some is better than none!

But there it is I will get off my soap box.

Reason for this post: I feel shorted on my birthing experience. I wish I would have waited to be induced and been kept more closely monitored. I wish I could have gotten into the tub. And I wish our town had midwives in it. Possibly the reason midwives is getting moved to a doctorate program is because I swore when I was younger no matter what I majored in I was going to get my doctorate. God is just pushing me along. And there is a need for midwives in our area.

Maybe I need to be the change I wish to see. Jessica, CMW and avid breast feeding endorser (possible Lactation consultant as well!!)

Dreaming big here folks. I cannot wait to help deliver a baby.

No comments:

Post a Comment

I love hearing from my readers, and look forward to your comments. So go ahead...leave me some love!